Employment opportunities or internship with Heaven's Gift
Nevertheless, I am willing to explore new or old blood who possesses the following qualities :
- If you are willing to humble yourself and serve, imagine being a butler for the bride, helping her to wear her shoes, fetching things around for her or her family, and not perceive these tasks as lowly duties, then it is the first step to become a planner assistant.
- To be able to work as a team. No one acts like a boss in our team. Everyone learns to support and help one another. It is through that, you get to learn even more and be an efficient planner assistant
- Commitment, commitment and commitment. Contrary to what many think - wedding planning is so fun, it is actually a very tedious and strenuous job. We may start work late, but we work even later. Before the event begins, we are there, when all guests leave, we are still working.. Our working time stretches more than one can imagine. Clients' rest days is our work days, Client's work days is also our work days.
- A passion for design. In fact, I am looking for more than a flair, I am looking for talents in design and creations.. I may not be physically handling all the designing, but I do know how to train one to be good in this area. We are looking for ability and availability.
- Finally and most importantly, I do look for reliable and faithful team mates. The industry is too small, and too competitive. We are not looking for players who seek to take a short cut , and try to be the next competitor. We rather train someone who believes in the organization, has the heart to learn and contribute to the team, than for someone who watches and tries to duplicate. On a hind note, we know most of the planners in the industry, some have become good partners, whom we refer to clients as well when our hands are full. I always believe each planner is unique and draws a certain group of clientele.. but as any planner, I am certain no one embraces a "stealer".
This is what I want to try, and from now on, I will try harder.
愛情與婚姻，我必須老實說，真的不一樣。愛情裡有很多激情可回味，婚姻裡則有甘有苦可品味，夫妻相守，不管好與壞，就是一輩子的長長久久！
在氣頭上的時候，滿腦子都是對方的不好，但還是要提醒自己，試著從對方的角度替他著想、想想他的美好，絕對不要輕易的口出惡言！因為每一句傷人的氣話，都會累積成未來關係中的不定時炸彈。
要做到這點，真的很不容易，我的秘訣是，先冷靜下來，把氣話先吞下去，告訴自己：『這後半輩子不管發生什麼，全世界就只有老公會最挺我，那現在又何必跟他計較這些小事呢！』多想幾分鐘，就會慢慢釋懷了。
還有個重點，這是我的牧師告訴我的：『即便老公在抱怨自己的爸媽或親人，你也永遠不能跟著說嘴！嫁出去就是嫁給夫家一家子，言語跟行為上都要絕對尊重老公的家人。』
經營婚姻，就像經營事業，甚至比經營事業更難！我們女人是把整個人生的資本，青春、愛情、生命、孩子全部投資進去的，一去不回的，當然要極盡所能讓它成功。
